Supporting You in Your Desire to Change
by Michael Feeley
I love synonyms – words with the same (or slightly different) meaning as another. I use them in my coaching work and when I write. I list one synonym after another so a person will find a word or an idea that connects with them and use it to feel understood, learn, grow, and change. […]
by Michael Feeley
Watch, think, learn, and then act when solving problems. Don’t just throw anything in as a patch. See what is happening and decide what needs attention, precise work, and change. Prioritize because some things don’t matter right away. Watch without complacency or waiting for someone else to do the work and find a solution that […]
by Michael Feeley
We have two choices when a change comes up. We can be at ‘our wits’ end’ – bewildered, anxious, worried, stupefied, disrupted, angry, puzzled, disconnected, and at a complete loss of what to do. Or We can be ‘cool as a cucumber’ – untroubled, relaxed, calm, collected, understanding, unflappable, unfazed, connected, reflective, curious, and taking […]
by Michael Feeley
Surround yourself with people who ask more of you than you ask of yourself, who care, and who offer essential, basic learning, challenges, and growth. Never lessen yourself in any way just to fit in and be approved of. You can learn new things and become more than you are, more your true self, without […]
by Michael Feeley
There is a quote by the Dalai Lama that I marvel at and learn from: “The enemy is a very good teacher.” Begin by defining the enemy for yourself. What does it mean? What are the facts? Why is there this enemy? Perhaps it’s a bully at school or work, a boss, a teacher, a government […]
by Michael Feeley
Two forces work in the world, and each of us all the time – Anabolic and Catabolic. Anabolic is the building up of metabolic pathways, healing, positive, and constructive. Catabolic is the breaking down process, usually seen as negative and destructive. Science and emotions are in the definition of these two opposites, as well as the […]
by Michael Feeley
What does it mean to do what’s right? Sometimes, doing what is right is just for you, and sometimes, it includes other people, a community, a city, a state, a country, and the world. Opportunities present themselves, and you are available to decide – yes or no. The opportunity might occur only once; other times, it […]
by Michael Feeley
When we make less of ourselves, when we’re unfair and inaccurate about who we are, we are self-discriminating. The inner negative talk (self-deprecation) is resistance, trying to hammer down and smash our true value. Self-discrimination sounds crazy. Why would we discriminate against ourselves? But that inner heckler is real and can harm us. Trying to […]
by Michael Feeley
People wear masks for good and bad reasons. Masks can protect you from pollution or disease, or they’re used to fool or hide, where a person pretends to be something they’re not. If your choices enable you to be true to yourself and not harm others, then do it. What’s your purpose? That’s the crucial question. […]
by Michael Feeley
The fear of success seems real, but it is resistance. It spills over into fear of the unknown and fear of change. Both can be scary. You passionately want success. You yearn for it in some profound, particular way, for business success, as a painter, composer, writer, a parent raising a family+++, and you’re also […]
Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.
…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!
You, my friend, are the Real Deal.
Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.
Commitment and care are at the center of my coaching work.
Being fully present and useful to you is how I can best serve you because your desire to change and to move forward matters to me.
I care about your happiness and success. Your life – Your changes - That’s my focus and our alliance together.
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Alyssha Csük gives me such a special gift in allowing me to present 5 of her stunning and beautiful photographs on my website. Rust and slate are alive in her exceptional pictures. Alyssha celebrates something which is usually ignored, seen as ugly, corroding, deteriorating and wasting away.
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