Supporting You in Your Desire to Change
by Michael Feeley
Call me fragile and watch how fast I push back. Something in me rejects that word completely. I’ve spent a career, and a life, proving the opposite. I just didn’t have a name for it until now. Antifragile. New word, new idea, worth sitting with. A fragile thing breaks under pressure. A resilient, robust thing […]
by Michael Feeley
Yesterday I wrote about true superiority. Today, it’s the twin: inferiority. But there are two kinds, and most people name only one. True inferiority is the kind that happens to you. It’s the voice of a parent, a teacher, anyone who said you’d never amount to anything, and then your inner bully that picked up […]
by Michael Feeley
Superiority has a bad name, and it’s earned it. Picture the person who needs to be better than everyone in the room — the gloater, the one-upper, the person whose sense of self depends on someone else standing lower. Beating them out and down. That version of superiority is corrosive. It shrinks the heart. It […]
by Michael Feeley
Underneath the proving, there’s usually a fear. Not always spoken, sometimes not even fully known, but it’s there. The fear of being dismissed. Overlooked. Underestimated. Disrespected. Patronized. Quietly filed under done. Told, without anyone saying it out loud, that your best contribution is behind you. That fear is what makes proving necessary in the first […]
by Michael Feeley
There are two ways to prove something, and they live in different rooms of the heart. One is small and loud. It says, “I’ll show you.” It needs an audience, a rival, a scoreboard. It proves itself by making someone else smaller. Gloating dressed up as achievement. This kind of proving is a cage. It […]
by Michael Feeley
I’m thinking about coincidence because I experience it a lot. Two separate things, two separate events, arriving at the same moment. I don’t believe it’s a fluke or mere chance. I believe there’s meaning in it, and that meaning is something we can discover, if we’re paying attention. There’s something almost impossible to explain about […]
by Michael Feeley
Change is happening right now, all around us, whether we notice it or not. And here’s the thing — we don’t have to wait for it. We can create it, in an instant, whenever we choose. Look at how small the moment can be. You squeeze fresh lemons, and suddenly you have juice — a […]
by Michael Feeley
Three weeks ago, a beautiful, cream-colored cat walked into our home like he owned it. No hesitation, no testing the waters. He simply arrived, settled into the sun, and stayed. We didn’t know whose cat he was or how long he’d been out on his own. What we knew was simpler: he was here, he […]
by Michael Feeley
What is the rhythm of life? Heartbeat. Breath. Sleep. Day into night, season into season. The body and the earth keep their own time, whether we notice or not. Then there’s the rhythm we build: waking, working, eating, sleeping. The bigger chapters — new jobs, new stages, new beginnings. And how we cope with change […]
by Michael Feeley
Blind trust. No questions asked, no doubt weighed, no evidence required. You simply believe. It shows up early. A child’s trust in a parent, before trust is even a concept. It shows up in new love, when you leap before you’ve seen the landing. It shows up in faith, when you trust something you can’t […]
Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.
…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!
You, my friend, are the Real Deal.
Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.
Commitment and care are at the center of my coaching work.
Being fully present and useful to you is how I can best serve you because your desire to change and to move forward matters to me.
I care about your happiness and success. Your life – Your changes - That’s my focus and our alliance together.
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Alyssha Csük gives me such a special gift in allowing me to present 5 of her stunning and beautiful photographs on my website. Rust and slate are alive in her exceptional pictures. Alyssha celebrates something which is usually ignored, seen as ugly, corroding, deteriorating and wasting away.
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