Call me fragile and watch how fast I push back. Something in me rejects that word completely. I’ve spent a career, and a life, proving the opposite. I just didn’t have a name for it until now. Antifragile.

New word, new idea, worth sitting with. A fragile thing breaks under pressure. A resilient, robust thing survives it, holds its shape.

Here’s the thrilling thing.  An antifragile thing does something more: it gets stronger because of the pressure, the way a muscle grows only when you resist it. Take the stress away, and instead of staying the same, the thing weakens. Growth requires the very disorder we’re taught to avoid.

I lived this before I could explain it. In outside sales, I was one of many, all chasing the same territory, measured every single week — new clients, high numbers, a manager watching. The pressure was constant. I didn’t wilt. I came alive. The harder they pushed, the more I produced. I went after the toughest accounts on purpose, because winning the easy ones proves little. Later, as a headhunter, I built a reputation for filling the impossible jobs everyone else had given up on. That wasn’t luck. That was commitment and stamina, a producer built by pressure, not despite it. Antifragile.

I’m proving it again right now. I’ve accepted a challenge to create a real estate video. Something I have almost no experience with. I could have backed away. Instead, I’m on deck for it, ready to learn as I go. That’s what antifragile looks like in real time, not just looking back.

You’ve likely felt this too, somewhere — a deadline, a difficult year, a challenge you didn’t choose that ended up making you sharper, more yourself, not smaller. That’s the same instinct in you, whether or not you’ve named it.

Where are you antifragile?

Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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