Enabler and Empowerer

Enabler and Empowerer

by Michael Feeley September 12, 2022


WE EACH CAN be an enabler for good or bad.

Enablers choose to assist or help someone (or something) to either be at their best or not – to be strong or weak –
proud or ashamed – appreciative or angry.

Enablers support and lead so other people can accomplish their goals.

Enablers teach people how to do things for themselves – freeing their talents and skills.

Enablers express gratitude for people’s actions, successes, and even failures and the hope to keep trying.

Enablers often need to be tough – forceful – willing to say NO and mean it without compromise. It’s the best form of care.
It’s goodwill.

“I will not enable you to sell yourself out – to hurt yourself and others.”

Enabling unproductive, unhealthy, addictive behavior is harmful – encouraging negative choices, providing excuses, avoiding healthy confrontations because you think you are helping someone when you’re not insisting a person take responsibility for their actions.

You become an accessary instead of an empowerer.

Empowerers enable others to reach the highest levels of personal and professional development.


Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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This also may interest you – Goodwill is a Choice to Live By.


Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

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Business Coach, Brand Strategist & Best Selling Author

…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!

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Vice President iPEC – Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

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Host of Studio Time Podcast


Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.

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