Who Are You? What Do You Want?

Who Are You? What Do You Want?

by Michael Feeley November 10, 2023



What are the things that go into being who you are?

You know plenty of facts, and others also know some specifics about you, but are you crystal clear about them?

Where can you still increase your ‘self’ by adding new things or taking some things away that don’t help you be who you desire to be, such as unjust anger, prejudice, selfishness, and cruelty?

What music is you? What books, artists, movies, food, people, events, values, beliefs+++

Verdi’s opera La Traviata is me – piano and cello music – a great bottle of Sancerre white wine – ocean views – Chekhov’s play Three Sisters – documentary films – being an anti-racist – love and marriage – gardening – yellow roses – recycling – organization – getting and giving quality service – gay rights – meditation – caring about health – expressing gratitude – integrity.

See what I’m saying? Specific commitments, wants, needs, and decisions are the facts and truth about who you are and help you know yourself.

Your magnificent details also enable you to understand what you want for your life. The yes and the no – will and won’t – like and dislike.

Never accept limitations, be it physical, emotional, or intellectual. You are greater than you can possibly imagine.

There is always more to learn about self and world, and that creates the change I believe we are all looking for.

Who Am I?

What Do I want?

These are two of the most loving and crucial questions to answer so you can live your best life.


Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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This is also for you – Respect and Celebrate Your Self.


Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

Libby Gill

Business Coach, Brand Strategist & Best Selling Author

…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!

Deborah Van de Grift – CPC, ELI-MP, PCC

Vice President iPEC – Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

You, my friend, are the Real Deal.

Matthew Carey

Host of Studio Time Podcast


Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.

Kathy Karn

Psychotherapist, Photographer and Storyteller /

London ON Canada

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