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When the Bottom Falls Out

When the Bottom Falls Out

by Michael Feeley December 9, 2025

 

The manager you trusted just quit in a rage. The deal you counted on collapsed. The plan you built your week around imploded overnight.

Your stomach clenches. Your mind races through worst-case scenarios. Everything feels like it’s sliding sideways into chaos.

Stop. Breathe. Look again.

That manager who quit? They were manipulating you. Now they’re gone, and you can build something honest.

That collapsed deal? It was probably flawed in ways you couldn’t see yet.

That ruined plan? It just cleared space for something better to emerge.

This isn’t about being glad it happened. This isn’t toxic positivity. It’s about refusing to let a bad situation also steal your agency. You can hold both truths: this sucks AND you’re going to find your way through it.

Most crises contain hidden corrections—the universe removing what wasn’t working anyway, even if we were too invested to see it.

Your job isn’t to pretend the crisis feels good. It doesn’t. Feel the gut punch. Acknowledge the disruption. Then ask: “What opportunity just opened up?”

You’re resilient. You’ve survived every crisis so far. You’re resourceful—you’ve solved problems with less. And you’re experienced enough to know that what looks like disaster on Tuesday often looks like liberation by Friday.

The rug got pulled out. Fine.

Now you get to choose what you build on the floor underneath.

 

Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

Libby Gill

Business Coach, Brand Strategist & Best Selling Author

…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!

Deborah Van de Grift – CPC, ELI-MP, PCC

Vice President iPEC – Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

You, my friend, are the Real Deal.

Matthew Carey

Host of Studio Time Podcast

Australia

Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.

Kathy Karn

Psychotherapist, Photographer and Storyteller / www.kathykarn.com

London ON Canada

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