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What Happens When You Get What You Want?

What Happens When You Get What You Want?

by Michael Feeley September 22, 2023

 

WILL YOU BE profoundly grateful, celebrate, and cherish your good fortune?

Or

Will you screw it up? Deliberately damage your success and happiness with narrow, insignificant thoughts, fears, and doubts, and keep stalling, faking away, and limiting yourself.

Will you let resistance convince you that you don’t deserve success, and because it didn’t come exclusively from you, it’s not for you, so you’ll sink it?

It’s ridiculous, but it happens.

People throw away their dreams because they want the power to control – to say yes or no – to decide to be grateful or ungrateful – happy or miserable on their terms.

A real estate client hired us to sell a big piece of property and find other agents to work with us. We found another top-level, highly respected company; now, the client has questions.

It’s like getting a contract to sing on Broadway, and you’re not sure it’s right for you now.

How is resistance working for you and against you?

Where are you willing to change, compromise, yield to get to your goal – your dream – and make it work?

Where do you prefer sabotage over having other people and the world come through for you?

“It’s better to be in the arena, getting stomped by the bull, than to be up in the stands or out in the parking lot.”
― Steven Pressfield, The War of Art: Winning the Inner Creative Battle.

 

Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

Libby Gill

Business Coach, Brand Strategist & Best Selling Author

…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!

Deborah Van de Grift – CPC, ELI-MP, PCC

Vice President iPEC – Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

You, my friend, are the Real Deal.

Matthew Carey

Host of Studio Time Podcast

Australia

Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.

Kathy Karn

Psychotherapist, Photographer and Storyteller / www.kathykarn.com

London ON Canada

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