The roses outside my door are ancient — older, probably, than some of the relationships I’ve outlived.

Today, in this French heat, I watched one wilt by mid-afternoon. Petals dropped low, color dulled, and for a moment it looked finished. It wasn’t. By evening, in the shade, with the first cool air and a splash of water at its roots, it will lift itself back. The heat is harsher now than it used to be — climate change seems to do that — and the wilt comes faster and deeper than it once did. But so does the recovery. The rose doesn’t argue with the heat. It bends, rests, and rises again when the conditions ease.

I know that feeling. The day you wonder if you’ve already bloomed your last bloom, if the heat — whatever form it takes for you — has finally won. That wilt is real. It is not the end of the story.

No one pulls an old rose bush out for wilting. No one calls it finished. It is pruned, fed, staked back up — because its age is exactly what makes it worth saving.

Someone ties it to the trellis when storms bend it to the side. For us, that someone is rarely a stake. It’s a partner, a friend, a stranger who still sees possibility in you when you’ve stopped seeing it in yourself.

This is the world telling us something we forget. Vintage is not tolerated or dismissed — it’s sought after. Old roses cost more, not less. Time adds. It doesn’t subtract.

Seeing yourself as vintage is a decision, made daily, against every voice — including your own — that whispers you’re past your bloom. The garden disagrees. Every wilted, recovered, decades-old, resilient rose bush blooming again in July disagrees.

You’re not done. You have many more blooms in you.

Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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