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Try or Sabotage Your Self

Try or Sabotage Your Self

by Michael Feeley December 17, 2023

 

MANY PEOPLE SABOTAGE themselves from changing jobs and building the vocation they dream about because their inner critic beats them down into believing – “No one sees your value. You’re not worth it. You will never amount to anything.” It’s a painful and comfortable excuse to stay stuck, to hide out, and to build a case against the world.

Here are some of the stories I hear from people I coach:

– Someone stole my idea…

– All the successful businesses are already open…

– It’s been done…

– I can’t compete with…

– There are thousands of books on the subject…

– I need to go back to school first…

– I haven’t paid my dues…

– I don’t have time…

– It takes too much time…

– I don’t have the money…

– It’s been done…

– I’m not an expert…

– I’d be plagiarizing…

– I’m not smart enough…

– I’m an amateur…

– I can’t make a living…

– I tried…

– I’m too old…

– I’m too young…

What is the truth?

Should there only be one Starbucks – one Walgreens – one Domino’s Pizza – one BlackRock – one Uber – one How to Book – one college – one pool service – one tailor – one internet café – one cleaning service – one small luxury hotel – one coach – one real estate company – one airline – one soprano – one clothes designer?

You’re original. One of a kind, your idea, and your work are the same and different from your competitors. That’s perfectly OK. They are alternatives to you, but it doesn’t mean you can’t be wildly successful and be people’s first choice.

We serve and create by what came before us – who came before us – and what is working now.

You have value, so produce and invent with your brand of value.

Sure – someone will dare and come up with something that clicks with people and spreads like crazy. But what choice will you make? To close down or to be inspired?

So I ask you:

> How big is the world?

> How many people are in the world?

> How many do you think are looking for what you have to offer that will help and change them?

> Out of the 7.888 billion people in the world, how many do you think you need to be successful?

 

Every day, serve, create, ship, and watch what happens.

Will you try or not?

 

Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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This is also important – Respect and Celebrate Your Self.

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Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

Libby Gill

Business Coach, Brand Strategist & Best Selling Author

…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!

Deborah Van de Grift – CPC, ELI-MP, PCC

Vice President iPEC – Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

You, my friend, are the Real Deal.

Matthew Carey

Host of Studio Time Podcast

Australia

Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.

Kathy Karn

Psychotherapist, Photographer and Storyteller / www.kathykarn.com

London ON Canada

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