We spend enormous energy pretending – not living fully as who we are. Not the obvious kind of hiding – most of us aren’t living double lives or maintaining elaborate deceptions. We hide in subtler ways. We round off our edges in professional settings. We soften our convictions when they might create friction. We perform a version of ourselves we think others want to see.

This is exhausting betrayal.

You have a profound obligation – not to others, but to yourself – to be seen as you actually are. To show the facts and mystery of your soul. To tell your story on your terms. With complete sincerity.

I AM. This is who I am. No faking away. My truth.

How do you want to be seen? Not how others expect to see you, or how it’s safest to appear.

How do you want to be known? What matters enough to you that hiding it feels like slow suffocation?

This isn’t about radical transparency or oversharing. It’s about refusing to fragment yourself into context-appropriate pieces. It’s about standing in your I AM, the certainties and the questions – and bringing that wholeness to every interaction, every decision, every relationship.

Your story is yours to tell. The narrative of who you are, what you value, what you’ve learned, where you’re going – this belongs to you. When you let others write that story, when you accept their limiting definitions or outdated assumptions, you give away the thing that matters most.

The work isn’t in the showing – it’s in the consistency and self-respect. Living one way takes practice. It requires catching yourself when you’re about to perform rather than be. It means noticing when you’re editing your truth to make it more palatable.

Here’s what you gain: liberation. The energy you get back when you stop managing multiple versions of yourself. The profound peace that comes from internal alignment. This isn’t a reward for good behavior – it’s the natural consequence of living in integrity. You become lighter. Freer. More present.

Don’t sell yourself out for approval. Don’t sell yourself short to avoid discomfort. The people who need the edited version of you aren’t your people. The opportunities that require you to hide aren’t your opportunities.

Your authenticity is your competitive advantage. Your particular way of seeing the world, your specific combination of values and experiences, your honest reactions and real convictions – these aren’t liabilities to manage. They’re the most valuable things you own.

Show yourself. Not because it’s brave or noble, though it may be both. Show yourself because living any other way is self-abandonment. Self sabotage.

You owe your Self that much.

Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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