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You Need Darkness

You Need Darkness

by Michael Feeley September 1, 2025

 

Challenging things happen to us all the time. It’s part of life. You’re convinced your story is over. The job is gone. The diagnosis came back. The relationship ended. You’re staring into darkness so thick you can’t remember what light feels like.

But here’s what I’ve learned as both a coach and a fellow traveler through dark seasons: You don’t escape darkness by finding light. You escape it by becoming light.

To become the light, strive to be the light for others. Not because it’s noble, but because it works.

A genuine interest in other people always helps us discover a kind of peace and a solution to our problems that we couldn’t see before.

Today, while you’re looking for your own stars, light someone else’s path. Ask how they’re really doing. Share what your pain just taught you.

Connecting and caring oppose the feeling of being alone with your questions and needs.

We need darkness to see the stars. We need each other to remember we’re made of the same light.

 

Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

Libby Gill

Business Coach, Brand Strategist & Best Selling Author

…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!

Deborah Van de Grift – CPC, ELI-MP, PCC

Vice President iPEC – Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

You, my friend, are the Real Deal.

Matthew Carey

Host of Studio Time Podcast

Australia

Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.

Kathy Karn

Psychotherapist, Photographer and Storyteller / www.kathykarn.com

London ON Canada

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