Two Choices – Two Kinds of People

Two Choices – Two Kinds of People

by Michael Feeley May 7, 2022


BRAVE AND WISE people make choices to criticize themselves accurately. They desire to change and improve themselves and work at it – to be the best they can be.

They have empathy for others – genuine interest, and warmth for people, and they put themselves and their needs second.

Their way is kind, generous, and caring. They’re in the sunlight, open, not hiding inside, in the shadows.

Truth and justice, and personal integrity matter to them.

Then we have another group who are selfish and care-less.

They manipulate the truth. They control people.

They point fingers – complaining about others getting in their way, interrupting their privacy and concerns – blamers – accusers – steeped in subterfuge, who won’t hold themselves accountable for anything.

There is no self-criticism.

They’re determined to have their way – ruthless, brash, cold, angry in their thoughts and actions, making themselves the center of the world. Their comfort and needs are paramount. It’s a dangerous and painful way to live.

Both behaviors are choices, and they have consequences (positive and negative) for you and others, maybe for the people you love most and for your own mental and physical wellness.

Call it payback – karma – retribution – cause and effect – action and reaction – whatever you do will come back at you.


Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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This also matters – Respect and Contempt has Consequences.


Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

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Business Coach, Brand Strategist & Best Selling Author

…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!

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Vice President iPEC – Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

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Host of Studio Time Podcast


Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.

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London ON Canada

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