The Old Fashioned Way
by Michael Feeley
A year-long diary sits on my desk. Every day has its own page, and every page holds my handwriting: what I’m doing today, what’s coming next week, what I hope for next spring.
I’ve kept one for more than thirty years. No reminders ping. No app syncs. Just ink, paper, and a man who likes to see his life written down.
That’s the old-fashioned way. And I’m proud of it. It works for me.
“Old-fashioned” can be thrown like a stone: behind the times, out of touch, done. Or it can be offered like a prize bouquet: someone who keeps their word, writes the thank-you note, fixes things instead of tossing them. Same two words. It depends on who’s holding them.
I remember not knowing what email was. Phones hung on kitchen walls. An electric car was science fiction. Now I write with AI over morning Nespresso coffee. I’m 75, old-fashioned, current, and curious about what’s next. The best way forward blends the two: old roots, new branches. Call it the new old-fashioned.
Look around: young people are buying vinyl, baking sourdough, and keeping paper journals. The old-fashioned way never left. It was waiting for the world to need it again.
Now the tough part.
Everything modern runs on something fragile. Power. Signal. A server you’ll never see. Living on an island, I know one storm can take it all away.
When the screen goes dark, who’s ready?
The person who knows a few phone numbers by heart. Who can read a paper map, keep cash in a drawer, cook from scratch, light a lamp, and knock on a neighbor’s door. Who keeps the important things written in a book that never needs charging.
My diary has never crashed. It has never asked for a password or lost thirty years of my life in an update.
That isn’t nostalgia. That’s practical resilience. Those methods worked for generations, and they still work for millions today. In a crisis, Sagers may be the backup system.
Then there are the oldest methods of all: integrity, honesty, truth, and a hard day’s work. They don’t need Wi-Fi. They can’t be hacked. In a world where anything can be faked, a person whose word is good is worth more than any device. That’s the foundation everything else stands on.
So to the younger crowd: learn the old skills while things are calm. Write by hand. Know your neighbors. Fix before you replace. Tell the truth. Say thank you. Keep one way of living that doesn’t depend on being plugged in.
To my fellow Sagers: you aren’t behind. You’re carrying something the world will need. That’s Vintageness: earned depth and life experience.
I’m not finished learning, changing, or challenging myself. I just do it with a pen in my hand, AI on my desk, and thirty years of diaries on the shelf.
Old-fashioned? Yes. And ready.
Thanks – Michael (he, him)
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