Let’s Retire the Word Elderly
by Michael Feeley
I’M 72, and elderly is not a word I would use to describe myself or anyone I know in their 80s or 90s. They are active, curious, aware, intelligent, confident, helpful, skilled, experienced human beings – mature – sages – modern elders (as Chip Conley respectfully expresses.) People pursuing new goals and dreams, living their happiest, most robust, and useful lives.
The word ‘elderly’ is discriminating. It’s ageism.
Many mature people lose their jobs because of age. They are refused interest-free credit or a new credit card, car insurance, home mortgage, and travel insurance. Sometimes, mature people receive low-quality service in a store or restaurant because of the organization’s attitude toward older people.
Most organizations now have diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) policies to tackle issues of racism and gender bias.
I read an article by Ken M. Dychtwald – American entrepreneur, gerontologist, and psychologist, titled – The New Age of Aging, where he says 80 is the new 60. That is inspiring.
Age is a viewpoint and attitude. We must commit to learning about aging and longevity and help educate others.
Aging is a new life opportunity – a new chapter – the next act in life for many people. Compassion and respect are essential choices to live by when thinking and talking about age.
Thanks – Michael (he, him)
Please share this Daily with your tribes.
This is also essential – Modern Elders Play.
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