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Holding On. Letting Go.

Holding On. Letting Go.

by Michael Feeley June 15, 2026

 

What are you holding on to — and why?

Some things deserve to be held. Relationships that matter. Work that calls you forward. Values that make you more yourself. These are worth the grip. They strengthen you, root you, remind you who you are.

But some things we hold because we’ve forgotten to let go or don’t want to. Old resentments. Worn-out stories. People who drain rather than restore. Control we mistake for safety. We carry them so long they begin to feel like us — but they aren’t. They’re unnecessary, harmful weight.

Nature knows this. Watch a rose as it matures. The petals fall away — not in failure, but in completion. What remains goes to seed. The release is the point. It’s both magical and scientific, and it asks nothing of the rose except to trust the process.

I recently released a personal resentment I’d carried too long. Every loose end was tied, every door was closed with intention. What came back in its place was something I hadn’t expected in its fullness — freedom. And with freedom, more room for the people I love and who genuinely love me back.

This is the invitation:

Examine your life honestly. What deserves to stay? What is only staying because you haven’t done the work to release it?

Let go of the stress. Let go of the control. See what opportunities the universe offers in the open space.

It probably begins with peace. And peace makes room for everything else.

Trust the process like a rose.

 

Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

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London ON Canada

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