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Don’t Look a Gift Horse in the Mouth

Don’t Look a Gift Horse in the Mouth

by Michael Feeley February 16, 2026

 

Sometimes the universe delivers exactly what you need, wrapped in unexpected packaging.

That buyer who wants your house at the right price? Gift.

That demanding colleague who finally walks away – the one who created chaos, refused to do the actual work, and fed off negative attention? Even bigger gift. You’re free.

Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth.

The proverb comes from ancient horse trading. Buyers would examine a horse’s teeth to determine age and health – basically interrogating the value of their “gift.” Rude when someone just handed you a horse, right?

Here’s what we forget: gifts aren’t always gentle. Sometimes they arrive as disruption. An unexpected sale. A sudden departure. A door slamming shut.

We’re so busy analyzing the timing, questioning the circumstances, examining the teeth, that we miss the big and exciting opportunity standing in front of us.

The person who leaves? They just gave you space to breathe.

The quick sale? Someone just said yes to your next chapter.

Stop counting teeth. Start asking: “What just opened up?”

Whether it gallops in or walks out, a gift is a gift. Your job isn’t to question it. Your job is to be grateful and to ride.

 

Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

Libby Gill

Business Coach, Brand Strategist & Best Selling Author

…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!

Deborah Van de Grift – CPC, ELI-MP, PCC

Vice President iPEC – Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

You, my friend, are the Real Deal.

Matthew Carey

Host of Studio Time Podcast

Australia

Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.

Kathy Karn

Psychotherapist, Photographer and Storyteller / www.kathykarn.com

London ON Canada

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