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Age Apartheid – The Dutch Nursing Home That’s Dismantling It

Age Apartheid – The Dutch Nursing Home That’s Dismantling It

by Michael Feeley May 8, 2026

 

There’s a nursing home in Deventer, Netherlands, doing something radical and life-enhancing.

They’re giving college students free apartments. Rent-free with one catch. Each student must spend 30 hours a month with senior residents. Not as caregivers. As neighbors. Goodwill Ambassadors… even diplomates between young and Vintage Warriors.

Conversations.

Shared meals.

Showing up.

That’s it. That’s the whole empathetic and generous deal.

It’s been working since 2012. And it’s spreading — to France, the United States, and beyond.

It’s attacking something most of us didn’t know there was even a name for it yet.

Age Apartheid – Generational apartness. Not integrated communities.

Not individual prejudice. Something structural. Institutional. The invisible architecture that shuffles older adults into “senior-friendly” spaces, younger people into “innovative” roles, and everyone into age-appropriate boxes — and then wonders why we all feel so disconnected.

We have been living behind age walls for too long.

The students at Humanitas in Deventer aren’t just getting free housing. They’re learning things no classroom teaches. Community. Resilience. Perspective. Compassion. Caring. The long view. And the residents aren’t just getting company. They’re getting energy, curiosity, a window back into the world moving outside their walls. Encouraging spirit and growth and fresh life.

This is bidirectional. The learning goes both ways. The helping goes both ways. That’s not a program. That’s what human beings are supposed to do for each other.

A Sager understands this instinctively.

Ageing is not subtraction. It is accumulation. Every year adds something irreplaceable — depth, progress, knowledge learned the only way wisdom ever is. Through living. Life experience. Through succeeding and failing. Consistently growing forward and helping others.

A Sagerist doesn’t hoard that. They offer it. Outward. Across the table. Across the generation gap. Across the wall.

Becoming a Sager is not the finish line. It is the starting point. Taking your deserved celebration laps in the stadium.

Sagerism.

 

Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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