Your Will

by Michael Feeley
Every day, people make decisions about their belongings—what to keep, what to give away, what matters. But there’s one decision many avoid: what happens to everything they’ve built after they’re gone.
A will is more than just a legal document describing what you’d like done with your property after you pass away. It’s your voice speaking when you can’t—a final act of care that says “I give this to you” to the people and causes that matter most.
It’s essential to create one, and it can be emotionally challenging because you’re alive and describing what you intend to do after your death. It’s a oneness of facts and feelings – profound emotions and focused logic – present and future.
Your will becomes your free will legacy—a document you can create with goodwill toward those you love, or, unfortunately, sometimes with ill will that can fracture families, friends, and businesses.
Think of your will as a sharing document where you might pass along:
– Your grandmother’s wedding ring, family photos.
– Your collection of books, paintings, furniture, home, and land.
– Savings you’ve carefully built.
Each decision reflects your values and relationships. Sometimes people go further, setting up endowments, trusts, or scholarships to ensure their assets and meaning continue touching lives long after they’re gone.
How to begin this meaningful process:
List what matters: Take inventory of your assets, both financial and personal.
Consider people: Who would you trust to carry out your wishes?
Consult a professional: Legal guidance ensures everything is valid.
Keep it updated: Major life changes (marriage, children, divorce, new assets) mean it’s time to revisit your will.
Creating a will isn’t about dwelling on mortality—it’s about taking care of the people you love and ensuring your values live on. It’s one final way to show you cared enough to make their lives a little easier during a difficult time.
Have you thought about what legacy you’d like to leave?
What matters most to you in how your story continues after you’re gone?
Thanks – Michael (he, him)
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