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When Respect and Fear Were One

When Respect and Fear Were One

by Michael Feeley October 30, 2025

 

We think of “revered” and “fear” as opposites—one noble, the other negative. But these words share ancient DNA.

Both trace back to a Latin root meaning “to stand in awe of.” In earlier times, fear didn’t just mean dread—it encompassed that spine-tingling feeling before something vast and powerful. The “fear of God” wasn’t about cowering; it was reverence mixed with recognition of overwhelming might.

You’ve likely felt this tension yourself. Standing before a storm-churned ocean, holding your newborn child for the first time, or watching someone display extraordinary courage—that mixture of wonder and trembling is the original meaning of fear-as-reverence.

Modern culture seems to have flattened “fear” into negativity: something to conquer or eliminate. We’ve forgotten that healthy fear is a gift—the kind intertwined with respect—protects and guides us. It’s what makes you cautious around power tools, thoughtful in important relationships, and humble before life’s mysteries.

Perhaps we need to reclaim this wisdom. The best leaders, partners, and parents inspire both love and a certain reverence-tinged caution. Not through intimidation, but through recognizing that they have real influence over our lives and deserve our serious attention.

When we revere something—whether nature, a mentor, or a calling—we’re acknowledging its power to shape us. That’s not weakness. It’s the ancient intelligence that helped our ancestors survive: knowing what deserves both our respect and our careful consideration.

 

Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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