What Effect Do You Want to Have?

What Effect Do You Want to Have?

by Michael Feeley November 30, 2023


WHATEVER YOU DO, will you leave the world better off or worse?

– If you rent a room at a Bed & Breakfast, will you leave it pretty much the way you found it or not care?

– If you give a presentation, will you be the same person afterward meeting people or less cordial and helpful?

– If you earn a client’s business, will you continue to build your relationship or hand them over to someone else and
move to the next piece of business?

You always have a choice in all your thoughts and actions, and some essential questions are:


> What effect do you want to have on people and things?

> How much does your effect matter to you?

> What does your effect say about your choice for justice and ethics?


There is always a choice between having Respect and Contempt.

Goodwill or Ill-will.

Love and Hate.

Generosity or Tightness.

Kindness or Coldness.

War and Peace.

Gratitude or Resentment.

Sometimes, you don’t have to say anything because your presence walking down a street, through a store, or talking on a phone has an effect, and people know your choices and feel how you live.


Thanks – Michael (he, him)

Please share this Daily with your tribes.
This also matters – What’s a Good Effect?


Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

Libby Gill

Business Coach, Brand Strategist & Best Selling Author

…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!

Deborah Van de Grift – CPC, ELI-MP, PCC

Vice President iPEC – Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

You, my friend, are the Real Deal.

Matthew Carey

Host of Studio Time Podcast


Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.

Kathy Karn

Psychotherapist, Photographer and Storyteller /

London ON Canada

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