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What Do You Actually Need?

What Do You Actually Need?

by Michael Feeley September 9, 2025

 

Stop scrolling for a moment. Before you buy the next thing, chase the next achievement, or post the next update—ask yourself a question that cuts deep:

What do you actually need?

Not what Instagram says you need to look successful. Not what LinkedIn says you need to seem accomplished. Not what the endless parade of productivity gurus and lifestyle brands insist will finally make you feel enough and perhaps successful or happy.

What do you actually need?

Strip away the noise and get to the essentials. Go inward.

Your body needs food, shelter, safety, and building financial security.

Your mind craves understanding, growth, and the satisfaction of wrestling with ideas until clarity emerges. Your heart seeks connection, meaning, the quiet joy of being known and accepted.

That’s it. The rest is marketing.

The most radical act in our attention-economy world isn’t buying more or achieving more—it’s sitting still long enough to discover what already lives inside you. Your curiosity. Your capacity for wonder. Your ability to think through problems without needing external validation at every step.

Culture sells you solutions to problems you didn’t know you had until they told you. But you already know what you need. You knew it before you learned to perform, before you started measuring your worth by metrics designed by strangers. Trust your gut, your instincts, core values.

Here’s your homework: For one week, before making any purchase, before checking any feed, before saying yes to any opportunity, ask: “Is this what I need, or what I think I should need?”

The answer will appear, and surprise you. And maybe, for the first time in a while, you’ll feel like enough… that you have all you need.

 

Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

Libby Gill

Business Coach, Brand Strategist & Best Selling Author

…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!

Deborah Van de Grift – CPC, ELI-MP, PCC

Vice President iPEC – Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

You, my friend, are the Real Deal.

Matthew Carey

Host of Studio Time Podcast

Australia

Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.

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Psychotherapist, Photographer and Storyteller / www.kathykarn.com

London ON Canada

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