Value the Good in People

Value the Good in People

by Michael Feeley March 14, 2023


THINGS CAN GO wrong with friends and people you work with, and you stop talking.

There might be anger, injustice, resentment, and ill will.

You might try to work things out or keep your distance and move on.

One way to live with the bad feelings and to feel some peace is to focus on the good in the person and your relationship.


> What are you grateful to the person for?
> Where do you honestly respect them?
> What good hope do you have for them?


When you value the good in a person, you’re valuing the truth about them – who they truly are, why you were friends
to start with, and the goodness your relationship was based on.

If you value the relationship you can try to change it and get back to what matters for you and maybe for them – happiness – kindness – goodwill – caring – love.

And if not, you can still hold gratitude and respect for them, and you can feel better trying to be fair to them in your mind and heart.


Thanks – Michael (he, him)

Please share this Daily with your tribes.
This also matters – Why Not Be a Kind and Useful Critic?


Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

Libby Gill

Business Coach, Brand Strategist & Best Selling Author

…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!

Deborah Van de Grift – CPC, ELI-MP, PCC

Vice President iPEC – Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

You, my friend, are the Real Deal.

Matthew Carey

Host of Studio Time Podcast


Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.

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London ON Canada

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