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The Spotlight You Choose

The Spotlight You Choose

by Michael Feeley January 27, 2026

 

You’re going to get noticed. The question is: for what?

Every day, you’re deciding which kind of attention you want to command. The person who shows up with integrity, who does the work, who delivers quality and treats people with kindness and respect – they become the center of attention through presence, not performance. People lean in because there’s substance there. Something solid. Trust. Goodwill.

Then there’s the other way. The manipulation. The need to be right. The superiority complex dressed up as confidence. The troublemaker. The anger that demands space. The greed that takes without giving. This gets attention too – but it’s the kind that repels even as it commands the room.

Try them both on. Seriously. Stand in front of your mirror and ask: which one am I wearing today? What fits me?

Because here’s what matters – you’re making this choice in every interaction. Every email. Every conversation. Every transaction. Moment to moment, you’re either building integrity or eroding it. There’s no neutral ground.

What name are you encouraging people to call you? What will be your reputation?

The long run? It’s just the accumulation of these moments. The person you’re becoming is the person you’re choosing to be right now. The attention you’re getting today is training people how to see, think, and talk about you tomorrow.

Which spotlight do you want? The one that illuminates your fine character or the one that exposes your evil and insecurity?

You already know which one respects you back.

 

Thanks – Michael (he, him)

Please share this Daily with your tribe.
This matters too – How Precious is Your Good Name.

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Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

Libby Gill

Business Coach, Brand Strategist & Best Selling Author

…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!

Deborah Van de Grift – CPC, ELI-MP, PCC

Vice President iPEC – Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

You, my friend, are the Real Deal.

Matthew Carey

Host of Studio Time Podcast

Australia

Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.

Kathy Karn

Psychotherapist, Photographer and Storyteller / www.kathykarn.com

London ON Canada

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