You’re being lied to about retirement. About aging. About when you’re supposed to be done and fade away.

Science tells you it’s genetics—that centenarians won the lottery, that your lifespan was determined at birth. Meanwhile, society whispers that at 65, maybe 70, you should gracefully withdraw. Stop working. Stop contributing. Accept irrelevance.

Harvard’s 85-year Study of Adult Development proves relationship satisfaction at 50 predicts health at 80 better than cholesterol levels.

Dan Buettner’s Blue Zones research—studying the world’s longest-lived populations—found that 80% of your lifespan is determined by lifestyle and environment, not genes.

You have more control than they want you to believe.

Ann Angeletti is 101 and works six days a week at Curiosity Jewelry, the business she’s owned since 1964. She still visits Manhattan’s Diamond District weekly, bargaining for the best deals because she loves what she does and her work keeps her active and alive. “If I retire, I would die,” she says plainly.

Her jewelry store, her expertise, her creativity, her connection to customers, and her daughter and granddaughter—that’s not a busy work hobby. That’s medicine for longevity.

• Harvard School of Public Health’s 2019 study in JAMA Network Open showed people with life purpose had measurably lower mortality rates.
• Japanese research found those lacking ikigai (reason for being) showed increased inflammation, decreased good cholesterol, higher death risk.
• Blue Zones research indicates knowing your purpose adds up to seven years of life.

Here’s what really matters: What are you losing right now if you’ve accepted the outdated, unkind, and untrue retirement script?

Every day you believe “my best work is behind me,” you’re activating decline. Every morning you wake without purpose, your body chemistry shifts toward deterioration. This isn’t metaphor—it’s measurable biology. Your thoughts create inflammation or resilience. Your sense of meaning maintains physical function or accelerates frailty.

And here’s what the world loses when you withdraw: your life experience, judgment, pattern recognition, decades of learning, skills, and mistakes that taught you what actually works. Society doesn’t just lose your productivity—it loses the wisdom that only comes from having lived through decades of success and failure.

Ann Angeletti refuses that theft. At 101, she’s still advocating for agency: “If you don’t like what you’re doing, then change.” She understands something culture wants you to forget: vintage means getting better, not deteriorating.

So what’s your ikigai? What’s the reason you’re refusing to be done?

Because the research is clear: Purpose isn’t optional for longevity. It’s not nice-to-have. Purpose is fuel. Connection is medicine. Engagement is survival.

The choice is yours. But make no mistake—it is a choice.

What are you choosing?

Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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This also matters – An African Proverb on Aging.

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