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The Long and Pleasurable Game of Service

The Long and Pleasurable Game of Service

by Michael Feeley January 6, 2026

 

Service isn’t a switch you flip when a project begins. It’s a continuous thread of attention, care, and connection that runs through the entire relationship—from first conversation to completion and beyond.

Real service means staying present even when there’s nothing immediate to do.

It’s the check-in two months before installation day, not the frantic call two days before where you present your bill. It’s keeping clients in your thoughts, updating them on progress, letting them know you’re on track. This steady presence builds trust in a way that last-minute waking up, pretending you care, and scrambling never can.

When you disappear between contract and delivery, only to resurface when you need something, people notice. They feel it. That sudden reappearance—after months of silence—speaks volumes about what matters to you. And what matters, they realize, is your timeline, your convenience, your payday. Not them.

Contrast this with a genuine, consistent connection. Weekly updates. Monthly check-ins. Thoughtful communication that says, “You’re on my mind. Your project matters. I’m working for you even when you can’t see it.” This isn’t extra work—it is the work. It’s what separates professionals who build lasting businesses from those who chase quick transactions.

The quality of your service reveals your values.

Are you relationship-focused or transaction-focused?

Do you care about people or just their cash business?

Your behavior answers these questions before you say a word. People read the gaps between your contacts as clearly as they read your words during them.

Last-minute demands and hurried catch-up work insult everyone involved.

They tell clients they weren’t valuable enough to plan for.

They tell your team you don’t respect their time.

They tell the world you’re reactive rather than sincerely reliable.

This approach might get a project done, but it destroys reputation in the process.

Top-quality service isn’t just an obligation—it’s a pleasure when done right. There’s deep satisfaction in the steady, thoughtful work of maintaining and anticipating needs. In staying connected, not because you have to, but because you can, because people and their projects genuinely matter to you. This approach creates ease and trust rather than chaos, confidence rather than desperation and anxiety.

The work you put into building relationships creates the foundation for everything else.

Strong relationships bring referrals, repeat business, and the kind of reputation that makes your phone ring with opportunities rather than complaints. They create partnerships that last years, even decades.

Service with sincerity beats frantic finish-line scurrying every time. It’s how you want people to talk about you: “They were with us every step. They cared. They delivered.”

That reputation? It’s built daily, not desperately. It’s earned through presence, not panic.

Will you be a bully in business?

Unforgettable or forgettable?

 

Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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This is also important – Caring is the Driving Force of Top Service.

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Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

Libby Gill

Business Coach, Brand Strategist & Best Selling Author

…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!

Deborah Van de Grift – CPC, ELI-MP, PCC

Vice President iPEC – Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

You, my friend, are the Real Deal.

Matthew Carey

Host of Studio Time Podcast

Australia

Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.

Kathy Karn

Psychotherapist, Photographer and Storyteller / www.kathykarn.com

London ON Canada

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