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The Exception

The Exception

by Michael Feeley June 4, 2026

 

Not every person deserves the same welcome. Not every situation calls for the same response. There are exceptions — and they matter.

We open our homes to guests but not to those who insult and harm us.

Teachers hold space for every student, but not for the bully who destroys it.

Citizens build nations together, but not with tyrants who betray them.

This is not hypocrisy. This is discernment, and discernment runs deep.

It means knowing right from wrong. Also knowing what is essential from what is secondary. What is permanent from what is passing. What is worth protecting from what can be released. Discernment is proportion. It is wisdom with a compass.

But here is where exceptions end.

Your integrity. Your core values. The beliefs and principles that define who you are — these should not be altered, abbreviated, or hemmed to a different length for someone else’s comfort. They should not be edited for convenience, trimmed for approval, softened with the hope that no one will notice — or if they do, that they will merely look away.

You do get to decide who you are in every room. You choose your actions. You read the situation. You respond as you see fit.

But you have to live with yourself.

Every choice has your name on it. Every exception you make or refuse to make is a statement about who you are.

Own it. No exceptions.

 

Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

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Business Coach, Brand Strategist & Best Selling Author

…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!

Deborah Van de Grift – CPC, ELI-MP, PCC

Vice President iPEC – Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

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Host of Studio Time Podcast

Australia

Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.

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Psychotherapist, Photographer and Storyteller / www.kathykarn.com

London ON Canada

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