Stay in Your Lane
by Michael Feeley
There’s profound wisdom in the old proverb “live and let live”—not as passive tolerance, but as active freedom.
This isn’t about grudgingly accepting differences. It’s about understanding that your energy and attention is precious. Every moment spent judging someone else’s choices is a moment stolen from building your own meaningful life.
Think of it as driving on a highway. You have your lane, they have theirs. You can acknowledge other drivers without swerving into their path or demanding they follow your route. Your focus remains on your journey, your destination, your responsibility.
Open-mindedness isn’t about abandoning your values—it’s about recognizing that your way isn’t the only way. Someone else’s spiritual beliefs, career path, relationship structure, or lifestyle choices aren’t threats to your existence. They’re simply different expressions of the human experience.
The boundaries matter: as long as no harm is caused, people deserve the dignity of their own choices. This frees you from the exhausting burden of being everyone’s moral referee.
When you truly grasp this, something shifts. You stop wasting energy on outrage over things that don’t affect you. You become curious rather than critical. You recognize that living ethically means focusing on your own integrity, not policing others.
The most radical act? Mind your business.
This isn’t indifference—it’s wisdom.
It’s choosing growth over judgment, peace over conflict, and your authentic path over conformity. Live your best life. Let others live theirs.
Thanks – Michael (he, him)
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This also matters – Your Choice – Respect or Contempt.
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