There is a proverb — often attributed to Sun Tzu, the ancient Chinese strategist and author of The Art of War — that stops me in the most curious and inspiring way every time I hear it.

“If you sit by the river long enough, the body of your enemy will float by.”

The meaning is elegant in its simplicity. Patience is strategy.

People who cause harm (enemies) rarely stop at one victim. Time exposes them. Their own behavior becomes their undoing — without you lifting a finger.

The trap most of us fall into, including myself, is this:

When someone hurts us — our family and friends — every instinct says fight back. Strike. Retaliate. Win loudly. And so we engage — and in doing so, we exhaust ourselves, lose focus, and sometimes become the very thing we are fighting against. We leave the riverbank. We jump in and then we are drowning in someone else’s chaos.

Sun Tzu wrote The Art of War around 500 BC. Only thirteen chapters long. Though written about military strategy, its wisdom has been applied to business, leadership, negotiation, sports, and life philosophy for over two thousand years.

Sun Tzu famously wrote that if you know your enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the outcome of a hundred battles. He believed the smartest victory is the one achieved without direct combat. That idea lives at the heart of our river proverb.

Sitting by the river is not weakness. It is not passivity. It is arguably the hardest thing a person can do. It means protecting your energy instead of squandering it. Keeping your eyes on your own work, your own integrity, your own life — while someone else’s choices carry them toward their inevitable consequence.

In practice, it looks like this: you keep showing up as your best self. You do your work. You refuse to be pulled into the current of evil and disruption.

The river is never in a hurry.

It doesn’t need to be.

Neither do you.

What would change in your life if you trusted the river more?

Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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