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Mean It

Mean It

by Michael Feeley June 24, 2026

 

The word mean can have a bad reputation.

Most people hear “mean” and think of cruelty. Unkindness. Someone who takes pleasure in another’s pain. In harming.

But there’s another meaning — and it’s one of the strongest words in the English language.

“I mean to do this.”

That’s not a wish. Not a hope. Not a maybe. It’s a declaration. A commitment. A line drawn in the ground.

“I mean to learn French.”
“I mean to find work that matters.”
“I mean to live with joy and peace.”

This is intention with a spine. Words that carry weight. A promise you make to yourself and keep.

There’s integrity in this word. Character. The truest version of who you are showing up and saying — “This is what I stand for. This is where I’m going. This is who I mean to be.”

So let me ask you something:

What do you mean to do?

What have you been calling “someday” — when the real word was always “I mean to?”

Say it out loud. Write it down. Own it.

I mean to ________.

Fill in that blank, and you haven’t just made a wish. You’ve made a promise. To yourself. From yourself.

That’s not hurtful.

That’s integrity.

 

Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

Libby Gill

Business Coach, Brand Strategist & Best Selling Author

…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!

Deborah Van de Grift – CPC, ELI-MP, PCC

Vice President iPEC – Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

You, my friend, are the Real Deal.

Matthew Carey

Host of Studio Time Podcast

Australia

Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.

Kathy Karn

Psychotherapist, Photographer and Storyteller / www.kathykarn.com

London ON Canada

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