by Michael Feeley March 16, 2021


YOU HAVE DECIDED to make a change in yourself because you want your life to be different, to be better in a specific way, and to be more your ‘self.’

As you begin the process of change, be kind to yourself.

Self-kindness is the friendly desire to act with compassion – support – and unlimited self-love.

Don’t be harsh or overly critical of yourself because change is demanding, big stuff.

You’re challenging yourself to improve your mind and body, and entire life in some specific way. (Maybe learning new skills, improving your health, relationships, job, and creative work+++).

You’re digging around inside of you, altering how you live and think, and that takes generous, considerate courage and
loving care – not ruthless orders and severity.

> Welcome change and relax into it

> Approve of your self

> Nurture and love you

> Embrace yourself with empathy

> Give yourself tender understanding

No ganging up. Negative self-judgment is out. Abundant kindness is in.

Assess… observe… move… and grow in new directions.

You’re brave to make new choices and Commit2Change.

I celebrate you, and YOU must celebrate yourself with gratitude.


Thanks – Michael

Please share this post with you tribes and celebrate your life with Gratitude!
I think you’ll like this too – Gratitude Has Side Effects.


Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

Libby Gill

Business Coach, Brand Strategist & Best Selling Author

…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!

Deborah Van de Grift – CPC, ELI-MP, PCC

Vice President iPEC – Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

You, my friend, are the Real Deal.

Matthew Carey

Host of Studio Time Podcast


Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.

Kathy Karn

Psychotherapist, Photographer and Storyteller /

London ON Canada

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