How Do People See You?

How Do People See You?

by Michael Feeley July 14, 2020


Are you authentic?

The same person wherever you are — with your closest friends, at work and then with strangers?

Here’s a simple and fun experiment to try called — How Do People Describe You?

Take a piece of paper and divide it into 3 columns – number each column # 1 / # 2 / # 3


#1 write – Close Friends

#2 write – Co-Workers

#3 write – Strangers


– Start with column #1 and write down all the words that your close friends would use to describe you.

– For # 2 write down all the words your co-workers would use.

– Finally, do the same with the strangers column. How might a stranger see you?


When you’re done, look and see – Are all 3 columns the same?

Are you the same person to close friends and co-workers and strangers?

This exercise will encourage you to be your true and authentic self — living your beliefs and values wherever you are,
in any situation.

Being authentic is a choice.

See what you want for your life… your entire life… and then choose to live it!

[I’m proud to say this article first appeared in The Huffington Post]

Thanks – Michael


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