Grudge or Gratitude – Your Choice

Grudge or Gratitude – Your Choice

by Michael Feeley April 2, 2021


YOU HAVE TWO choices about a grudge:

1. Don’t release your grudge. Grasp on to it. Stew and fester. If resentment makes you happy and it is healthy for your mind and heart, then stick with your anger and bitterness. Be spiteful.

2. Let go of your grudge. Look at your grievance and see it for what it is. Then express yourself honestly, with compassion to the person or thing you’re grudging about, and decide if you want them or it in or out of your life.

You have the ability to forgive and move on with your life. It’s your choice.

> Grudge or Gratitude

> Grudge or Open Heart

When you harbor a grudge, you’re closed off, small, tight. You bury yourself in awful feelings.

Gratitude expands and elevates you. It nourishes your heart. It’s generous, organic, liberating.

There is a gift in every grudge; something to learn, grow and change, and become more your Self.


Thanks – Michael

Please share this post with people and see how gratitude is your best choice.
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Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

Libby Gill

Business Coach, Brand Strategist & Best Selling Author

…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!

Deborah Van de Grift – CPC, ELI-MP, PCC

Vice President iPEC – Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

You, my friend, are the Real Deal.

Matthew Carey

Host of Studio Time Podcast


Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.

Kathy Karn

Psychotherapist, Photographer and Storyteller /

London ON Canada

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