Fit In and Stand Out

Fit In and Stand Out

by Michael Feeley August 4, 2022


OFTEN WE’RE ENCOURAGED (and make our own choices) to fit in – to feel we belong, following the existing rules, the social structure, and values of how things are done, and not to stand out.

Fitting in can mean following the status quo, such as acting a certain way at school and later at a job. Behaving and not
being a rebel. (Real rebels create change.)

I think you can fit in and stand out by doing your work and doing more than expected , not being average or mediocre.

You can be unique and remarkable while working and living in standard ways.

I found happiness and success when I chose to be original while fitting in. Being myself and not pretending
to be like everyone else.

I was standing out within boundaries.

I did my thing with respect for others.

I trusted my gut and heart whether I was accepted or not, and I did not hurt other people with my choices.

It can be a fantastic thing if you feel you don’t fit in. It means you might be in the wrong place, and then…
you can move on to change things for the better by standing up and out >  >>   >>>   >>>>


Thanks – Michael (he, him)

Please share my Daily and see what it means to stand out and… fit in.
I think you’ll like this too – Be Outstanding or Mediocre – Your Choice.


Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

Libby Gill

Business Coach, Brand Strategist & Best Selling Author

…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!

Deborah Van de Grift – CPC, ELI-MP, PCC

Vice President iPEC – Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

You, my friend, are the Real Deal.

Matthew Carey

Host of Studio Time Podcast


Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.

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London ON Canada

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