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Don’t Let a Lawyer Scare You

Don’t Let a Lawyer Scare You

by Michael Feeley February 25, 2026

 

A lawyer sends you a letter. Your stomach drops. The language is dense, the tone is threatening, and suddenly you feel like you’ve already lost something — your confidence, your footing, maybe even your rights.

Stop. Take a breath. Read it again.

Lawyers are valuable. They study hard, know the law deeply, and at their best, they represent truth and protect people. We need them. But here’s what they don’t always tell you — they don’t own the law. The law belongs to all of us.

Some lawyers — not all, but some — use their knowledge as a weapon. They hide behind jargon because confusion benefits them. They write letters designed to make you feel small, cornered, and compliant. That intimidation is a strategy, not the truth about your situation or a problem.

Know this: a letter is not a verdict. A demand is not a done deal. Legal language dressed up to sound final is often the opening move in a negotiation, not the closing argument.

What do you do when that letter arrives?

Don’t react from fear. Read it carefully. Ask questions. Get your own legal counsel if the stakes are high. Understand what is actually being asked of you versus what is being implied. There is almost always a significant difference.

You have rights. You have standing. You have a voice.

Lawyers know the law. But they don’t know you — your character, your truth, your willingness to stand firm.

And remember this — lawyers aren’t only a force that comes at you. They can work for you. Knowing your rights also means knowing when to use that tool yourself. The same letter that intimidates you today is one you can send when the moment calls for it.

Fear hands over your power before the conversation even begins. Knowledge keeps it where it belongs — with you.

Stay curious. Stay calm. Stay in your own lane. You’re in the driver’s seat.

 

Thanks – Michael (he, him)

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Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

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