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Unstoppable Vulnerability

Unstoppable Vulnerability

by Michael Feeley September 24, 2020

 

It’s perfectly understandable that people feel vulnerable at this time with all the changes that are happening around the world with the corona virus.

Vulnerability is usually seen as being weak, something at risk, unsafe, exposed, letting your guard down and existing in the social, economic, physical, attitudinal areas of daily life.

– But what if you turn it around and see the opposite?

– What are the assets and advantages of being vulnerable?

The mirror image and the truth about vulnerability means you’re brave. Confident and open. That you’re strong because you’re not afraid to feel and show your emotions and that choice can connect you to people instead of creating fear or distrust. That you’re vulnerably proud to count on other people – to need them – to welcome their help.

How can you ever expect to have empathy for others without being vulnerable?

Empathy means wanting to know another person. To see how they see the world. Understanding their hopes and fears. Opening yourself up to the thoughts and feelings of someone else without limit is what I call – Unstoppable Vulnerability.

It takes courage and wisdom to be that trusting – available – resilient – invulnerable – unshakable – fearless.

Try on these new vulnerable choices and see what happens:

  • Vulnerable bravery – breaking through the unknown; being open and facing your fears
  • Vulnerable risk – accepting the challenge of not knowing if you’ll succeed or fail but you show up
  • Vulnerable goodness – believing that kindness and generosity is the way to live
  • Vulnerable uncontrollability – ecstatic, unmanageable love for someone or something

 

How can you create unstoppable vulnerability that makes you feel strong and wise? (Fill in the blank.)

Vulnerable (what?)_________________________________

 

Thanks – Michael

Please share this idea with other people and promote the power and pleasure of vulnerability. Here’s something else I think you’ll enjoy – Every Love Song Is About You.

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Michael has twenty years experience matching people with positions that allows them to reach their potential. Having worked with corporate decision makers, Michael has expertise in understanding organizational needs in multiple industries. He understands, experientially and intuitively, what gets people hired and what doesn’t. With a big heart and intellect to match, Michael Feeley is an authority on bringing the best out of business owners, executives, and entrepreneurs… he has such amazing energy, not to mention a terrific business background.

Libby Gill

Business Coach, Brand Strategist & Best Selling Author

…as a trainer I watched Michael Feeley become a masterful coach, being adept at many coaching skills… he is supportive, motivational, action-oriented, open minded, authentic, confident and compassionate… such a delight to work with… fun, high-energy, intuitive, spontaneous!… I have observed him to be very inspirational, empowering, and encouraging clients to go to greater depths in their lives. He is a true ambassador of the profession… Michael has heart and soul along with the ability to deliver!

Deborah Van de Grift – CPC, ELI-MP, PCC

Vice President iPEC – Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

You, my friend, are the Real Deal.

Matthew Carey

Host of Studio Time Podcast

Australia

Michael Feeley walks the walk and talks the talk. He is honest, authentic and incredibly generous in spirit. Michael’s deep commitment to service means his clients get his full attention and will benefit from his coaching skills, experience and wisdom.

Kathy Karn

Psychotherapist, Photographer and Storyteller / www.kathykarn.com

London ON Canada

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